melissawilliams

Judging a book by it's cover

Madelene wrote such a sweet inlägg in Zlips website.  I was so impressed that she saw me with an open mind and then had the humility and heart to write me and say so!  I think that not only I can learn from this inlägg, but maybe many others as well.

Av Madelene , Tuesday 17 November 2009

Melissa!
Jag vill bara säga, att jag har verkligen ändrat uppfattning om dig, speciellt sen i lördagens Dansbandskampen.
Jag ska vara ärlig och säga, att jag tyckt att du verkat lite kall och nästan stöddig. Sorry för det, för jag har just upptäckt att det inte stämmer!

I lördags fick man ju se att även du har känslor, även om det inte var det bästa som visade det. Mycket tragiskt med din styvpappa.
Men som sagt, jag börjar gilla dig.
Go Girl!!

/Madde

My response:

Av Melissa , Tuesday 17 November 2009

Madde! - Thank you for your honest and very thoughtful inlägg. I can understand how one could experience me as cold-I see the intensive look in my eyes too and wonder why they do not always match my very soft insides. Funny how life seems to teach and reteach us to never judge a book by it's cover! I have to be reminded of it myself sometimes. Your humility and thoughtfulness has touched me. Thank you for writing! - Melissa

I am happy because of the fact that more people could see and experience the warmth in you Melissa. I had my doubts in you earlier when you entered the stage with Zlips the first time. But by stop judging and by reading your blogg and by talking to you after your gigs, I´m amazed over how sincere you are. Like you alot and are happy to knowing you!

Read and article in a magazine by my hairdresser about you and Lillen, hope you will take the step :)

Big Hugs "Märta"

Hej Mel!

Även om jag aldrig dömt dig eller så, så vill jag ändå passa på att tala om vilken färgstark (och det är något mycket positivt i mina ögon) och underbar person du verkar vara! Du har en speciell plats i mitt hjärta, det vet du!
Puss & Kram!

You have always been my favorit since I saw you last years on Dansbands Kampen whit many more :-)

Keep rockin´ dansband girl =)